How to choose your
Sedona wedding party
Getting ready for your Sedona wedding party is a huge
preparation for one of the biggest events of your life. This can
be a very easy task or a very hard task, depending on the size of
family and the number of close friends that you and your fiancé
have. You will need the help and support of people who are understanding
and are able to put in time to assist you. Your Sedona wedding is
probably the most important event of your life.
The number of ushers and bridesmaid depends on how big and formal
the wedding is you have planned for Sedona. Generally speaking,
the more formal the Sedona wedding, the more ushers and bridesmaids
you have to include. Although it is not set in stone, you need to
have at least one usher for every fifty guests, and also same number
for the bridesmaids. But you can always have as many ushers and
bridesmaids as you wish.
Nowadays, you can find as many as a dozen of ushers and even more
bridesmaids. It is not necessary to have the same number of ushers
and bridesmaids - especially in Sedona, where life is very casual.
If you are concerned about the evenness in the processional or
recessional, you can have two ushers escort one bridesmaid or you
can have the bridesmaid walk alone. For the dances that are scheduled
at the reception, you can have a guest dance with the extra usher
or the extra bridesmaid.
Your bridesmaids are your attendants and they stand on your side
during the ceremony (assuming you're the bride, that is!). Your
future husband's ushers are his attendants who stand on his side.
If your best friend happens to be a man, he can still be your attendant
and should stand on your side.
If he is going to be the maid of honor, he will be referred to
as the honor attendant. During the processional and recessional,
he can escort one of the bridesmaids if there are more bridesmaids
than ushers, or he can walk alone before the rest of the bridesmaids.
Similarly, your 'husband to be' can have a female usher who can
stand on his side during the Sedona wedding ceremony you plan. She
is also referred to as an usher but should not escort guests, especially
female ones, to their seats.
You and your fiancé should choose your bridesmaids and ushers
among the people that are closest to you - and those who will make
the trip to your wedding in Sedona. It is not required or even necessary
to include your family member as an attendant especially if he or
she is not close to you.
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